A wedding and a funeral December 4, 2023 By Sam | Delete User Proverb in the local language Kukopa ni arusi kulipa ni matanga. Proverb's direct translationBorrowing is like a wedding , paying back is like mourning. Proverb's meaningBorrowing makes people happy but paying back makes people sad. From: Swahili General comments Kiswahili is spoken in Kenya, Tanzania and Uganda and parts of Somalia, Democratic Republic of the Congo and Rwanda in Eastern Africa.