An old man and sorrow March 25, 2024 By Africa Proverbs | Delete User Proverb in the local language Opanin su a, osu ne tirim. Proverb's direct translationA senior man does not give way to grief in public. Proverb's meaningA self-respecting person cannot show pain in public. Equivalent proverb Big boys don't cry. From: Akan General comments Akan live mainly in Ghana, Côte d'Ivoire and Togo in West Africa.